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WATCH: Gay Man Arrested in Mo. for Refusing to Leave Partner's Hospital Bedside

Robert Gorley says hospital staff at Research Medical Center in Kansas City had him arrested and issued a restraining order when he refused to leave his partner’s hospital room.

BY SUNNIVIE BRYDUM

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A gay man was arrested and issued a restraining order in Kansas City, Mo., after he refused to leave his partner’s hospital bedside, according to The Raw Story. Roger Gorley told Kansas City’s Fox 4 News that even though he and his partner, Allen, have been in a civil union for five years and have legal power of attorney agreements to make medical decisions for one another, when a member of Allen’s family asked Gorley to leave, staff at Research Medical Center refused to recognize the men’s partnership, and called police to remove Gorley from the hospital in handcuffs.

“I was not recognized as being the husband,” Gorley told Fox 4 on April 11. “I wasn’t recognized as being the partner.” 

Gorley contends that the nurse on duty did not look for documentation to confirm Gorley’s assertions that he had a legal right to stay with his partner. 

“She didn’t even bother to look it up, to check into it,” Gorley told Fox 4. 

Instead, Gorley was escorted off the premises in handcuffs, and issued a restraining order which has kept him from any contact with his partner since the incident on April 10. The hospital declined to comment on the specifics of the case, but issued a statement saying it does not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. 

“We believe involving the family is an important part of the patient care process,” Research Medical Center said in the statement. “And the patient`s needs are always our first priority. When anyone becomes disruptive to providing the necessary patient care, we involve our security team to help calm the situation and to protect our patients and staff. If the situation continues to escalate, we have no choice but to request police assistance.”

In 2010, President Obama issued a memorandum ordering hospitals to recognize same-sex partners as family and guarantee them equal visitation rights as offered to opposite-sex spouses. Zack Ford at ThinkProgress LGBT noted that Missouri’s state laws regulating power of attorney might leave room for hospitals to deny visitation “based on religious beliefs or sincerely held moral convictions, unless the hospital…received a copy of the durable power of attorney.” 

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Victorious Step in Long Fight

Although voters had banned same-sex marriage via the state constitution, activists pressed for civil unions and won that fight today.

BY LUCAS GRINDLEY

As Gov. John Hickenlooper signed a new civil unions law today, activists know it represents a victory long fought for by LGBT Coloradans. The state is the source of a case that produced a landmark decision for LGBT equality from the U.S. Supreme Court. In 1996 justices ruled 6-3 in a case called Romer v. Evans to strike down Colorado’s voter-approved Amendment 2 as unconstitutional. The amendment barred the state or any governmental unit within it from enacting laws prohibiting sexual orientation–based discrimination.

Justice Anthony Kennedy, who activists are now counting on as a swing vote when the high court considers marriage equality starting next week, wrote the majority opinion. As a result, since 2007, Colorado has outlawed discrimination against anyone based on sexual orientation or gender identity. Meanwhile, in 2006, Coloradans voted to constitutionally ban same-sex marriage by limiting marriage to “only between one man and one woman.” Voters also made it clear they wouldn’t recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states.

This year marks the third try for civil unions instead. The most recent failure, in 2011, ended in a procedural move by Republicans that shut down the legislature on the last day of the session, ensuring the bill couldn’t be voted on despite having the votes to pass. But with the latest election, Coloradans sent Democrats into power in both the Senate and House. In the Senate, gay Democrat Pat Steadman, whose partner died in September, had long been fighting for equality. He introduced the civil unions legislation and it passed 21-14 on February 12. The House — which had selected a gay man, Mark Ferrandino, as its speaker — voted 39-26 for the legislation March 12. With the addition of Hickenlooper’s signature today, the new law goes into effect in Colorado on May 1.

The Roman Catholic Church has threatened to leave the adoption business over civil unions, arguing that as a state contractor it would be forced to recognize the unions and claiming that is incompatible with Catholic faith. Catholic Charities had already made the same move in Illinois after civil unions become law there.

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Poland Rejects Proposed Gay Civil Unions

By Marcin Sobczyk

Poland’s legislators rejected three pieces of draft legislation that would have recognized same-sex civil unions, a defeat for the country’s prime minister who had thrown his weight behind the proposed laws but was outvoted by those citing Catholic teaching. The debate in Parliament over the bills was a sign of the tug-of-war between more liberal-minded and secular politicians and conservatives who support traditional religious values that has characterized Poland’s approach to a range of social issues as it reintegrates with Western Europe.

Poland’s first openly gay lawmaker, Robert Biedron of the Palikot Movement party, presented two of the bills in the lower house, known as Sejm. A third bill was introduced by the ruling Civic Platform party of Prime Minister Donald Tusk. It was the first time the Polish Parliament has considered granting some rights that married people enjoy to homosexual couples. The two civil-unions bills presented by Mr. Biedron were defeated by firm majorities. But the Civic Platform legislation was defeated narrowly, with 211 MPs in the 460-seat lower house voting to allow the bill to move forward. About a fifth of the ruling party’s house members refused to back it and teamed up with opposition conservatives to produce 228 votes against it. All of the legislation would have allowed couples to register partnerships and gain the right to inherit property tax-free and to make life decisions in the other partner’s name, among other privileges. Even though the legislation was expected to be mostly used by opposite-sex couples, the change would have been profound for gay relationships that currently enjoy no explicit recognition in Polish law.

Shortly before the final vote, a quarrel erupted between Mr. Tusk and his justice minister, Jaroslaw Gowin, who argued that the legislation was incompatible with Poland’s constitution, which calls for the protection of marriage as a union of man and woman. Mr. Gowin is seen as an informal leader of a conservative group within the ruling party and has previously spoken against public funding of artificial insemination and a Council of Europe convention on preventing domestic violence, which the government eventually signed.

Mr. Tusk urged the house to ignore Mr. Gowin’s objections and allow the legislation to proceed.

“It’s not the government’s position that the bills violate the constitution,” he said. “One can’t close one’s eyes to social facts. We have marriages described by the law and guaranteed by the constitution, we have informal couples, and we have homosexual relationships, as well as singles. It seems obvious that the current legal setup doesn’t reflect that those social facts exist.”

In the 2011 parliamentary campaign, Mr. Tusk sought to lure more liberal voters by promising to put the legislation before Parliament if he won. The ruling Civic Platform party won the most votes, but has to rely on a partner, the Peasants Party, for a majority in the lower house. On civil unions, its coalition partner Friday sided with the conservatives. Opponents said the primary goal of couples is to procreate, which is why same-sex unions can’t be recognized. “Society can’t fund a sweet existence to unstable, barren unions of people from whom it doesn’t benefit only because of the sexual attachment that binds them,” said Krystyna Pawlowicz of the opposition Law and Justice party.

To back up their viewpoint, some of the opponents pointed to the concept of natural law, which isn’t, however, among the sources of law enumerated in the Polish constitution. Ms. Pawlowicz also said the bills sought to “exhibitionistically allow for displays, in the public sphere, of sexual inclinations that violate the sense of aesthetics and morality.”

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ACTUP.ORG: Poland - Poland's right-wing liberal party wants the government to introduce registered partnerships for same-sex couples

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Parliament will discuss the end of January a bill the party of Prime Minister Donald Tusk, Polish media report as loud Kathpress on Wednesday. Both heterosexual and homosexual couples should therefore planned civil partnerships may close before a notary or registry lonely. The bill including a space partners refuse to give evidence in court and the right to receive, at a hospital partner’s information about his state of health, it said. Also there should be maintenance obligations after a breakup. Tax benefits such as a splitting tariff were not provided.

The legislative initiative is controversial within the PO. Under Justice Minister Jaroslaw Gowin other rejects from registered homosexual partnerships. Even the small coalition partner, the conservative PSL, there are serious reservations. The leftist opposition the other hand brought up its own bill for registered partnerships in parliament. The largest opposition party “Law and Justice” is against any law partnership.

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Domestic partnership proposed in new Florida Senate bill

Domestic Partnership
By: Greg Angel

Despite a constitutional ban on gay marriage in Florida, gay couples could soon enter into domestic partnerships. That’s what’s proposed in “Senate Bill 196: Families First” filed January 9 by Florida state Senator Eleanor Sobel (D-Hollywood). If passed, it would also extend some marital benefits to same-sex couples across Florida.

The bill states, in part: “The state has a strong interest in promoting stable and lasting families, and believes that all families should be provided with the opportunity to obtain necessary legal protections and status and the ability to achieve their fullest potential.”

Currently it’s up to local governments to decide whether to allow domestic partnershipregistration. Orlando is one city in Florida that allows it.

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Brazil Senate committee OKs gay civil unions

by The Associated Press

A measure allowing same-sex civil unions passed its first legislative step in Brazil’s Congress, where it has lingered for 16 years.

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Colorado legislators kill civil unions bill

pansexualpride:

In the closest the state has come to legalizing civil unions, a special session in Colorado’s legislature effectively killed a bill that would have granted the right to same-sex couples before it even reached the House floor:

A measure allowing same-sex civil unions that prompted Colorado Governor John Hickenlooper to call a special session after Republicans killed it last week may be defeated again later today.

On the first day of the new session, Colorado Republican House Speaker Frank McNulty assigned the bill to the State, Veterans and Military Affairs Committee, a panel dominated by conservative members.

McNulty “sent it to state affairs, unfortunately known as his ‘kill’ committee,” said Democrat House Minority Leader Mark Ferrandino, the bill’s sponsor. “I’m going in knowing we don’t have a committed ‘yes’ vote.”

McNulty said the reason why he sent it to the kill committee was to “dispense with divisive issues as quickly as possible so we can get back to the business of creating jobs.” Additionally, GOP Rep. Don Coram said the reason why he voted against the bill (he has a gay son) was because, ”I’m concerned that the gay community is being used as a political pawn.”

So you’re voting against a bill granting rights to the gay community…for their own well-being? This kind of argument by the right that civil liberties for gay couples (or Obama’s support for marriage equality) is some kind of political ploy or diversion from the “real issues” is a political ploy in itself (not to mention completely trivializes LGBTQ rights) — and not one that will work come November.

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The first gay civil union in Delaware

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Drewry Fennell and Lisa Goodman, lawyers who have been together for 14 years, were the first same-sex couple to enter a civil union in Delaware when the state’s new civil unions law went into effect on January 1. 

Their ceremony was attended by 400 people, “including U.S. Senator Chris Coons (D-Del., who delivered a sermon) and Lt. Gov. Matt Denns (who read a scripture).”

AP reported that Goodman helped lead Equality Delaware’s fight for state’s new law while Fennell heads the state’s Criminal Justice Council. The New Castle County Clerk of the Peace, Ken Boulden Jr., had opened his office on a Sunday, New Year’s day, so that eight couples — including the Goodman-Fennells — could get their licenses on the first day they were legally available. 

Civil unions also took effect in Hawaii on New Year’s Day. Such a happy start to the year. So excited to hear more stories like this. 

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Colo. GOP Group Forms to Back Civil Unions

By Trudy Ring

Mario Nicolais X390 (GRAB) | ADVOCATE.COM

A new Republican group, Coloradoans for Freedom, has formed to advocate for civil unions in that state.

The group’s purpose is “to provide resources to people interested in the conservative argument for civil unions,” spokesman Mario Nicolais (pictured), a lawyer and self-described “hard-core partisan Republican,” told The Denver Post.

It will hold a reception Thursday at a private home in Denver, and the keynote speaker will be former state representative Rob Witwer, a straight Republican who supports civil unions.

“In my mind, there’s nothing inconsistent with being a Republican and supporting the rights of gay people to live as they choose,” Witwer told the Post. “I would like gay people who believe in limited government and fiscal responsibility to know they still have a home in the Republican Party.”

Legislation to establish civil unions for Colorado gay couples passed in the state Senate last year, but it died in a House committee, where every Democrat voted for it and every Republican against it. Lawmakers are expected to consider a similar bill in the new legislative session, which starts January 11.

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Gay parents discover limits of partnership

Maria von Känel Scheibling, right, with her family
Maria von Känel Scheibling, right, with her family (von Känel Scheibling)

by Clare O’Dea, swissinfo.ch


More than 10,000 people have tied the partnership knot in Switzerland since a new law made civil partnerships possible for homosexual couples five years ago.

The trip to the register office has been a life-changing event for many, giving official recognition to their union and securing rights that married heterosexual couples take for granted.

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Hawaii Civil Unions Cap Off Decades-Long Struggle For Gay Marriage Rights

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Hawaii Prepares for Civil Union Couples | advocate.com

By Trudy Ring

HAWAII X390 | ADVOCATE.COM

Hawaii is preparing for the arrival of thousands of same-sex couples planning to welcome 2012 by taking advantage of the state’s new civil unions law, which goes into effect January 1.

Wedding planners and other businesses are putting together special offerings for gay couples, notes The Bay Area Reporter. Civil unions are expected to be an economic boon to the state.

Read the full report here.

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More insurance companies provide benefits to same-sex couples

gaywrites:

Esurance and other insurance companies are now allowing policyholders to qualify for a discounted rate by indicating they’re in same-sex marriages, partnerships or civil unions.

Married couples can usually save 10% off auto premiums. From the Advocate:

Though State Farm and Allstate already give reduced rates to gay couples in states that recognize same-sex marriage equality, civil unions, or domestic partnerships, Esurance is also offering the same benefit in a handful of states (California, Illinois, Oregon, and Washington). The small company is also exploring that option in other states.  State Farm spokesman Dick Luedke said that married drivers are also less likely to get into accidents, part of the reasoning behind a reduced rate for married drivers.  ”Marriage is marriage,” Luedke said. “It doesn’t matter if you are married to someone of the same sex.” 

Couldn’t have said it better - marriage is marriage. 

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Chile considers gay civil unions

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A Chilean newspaper recently reported that the country is seriously considering a bill that would legalize civil unions for same-sex couples. 

The paper said the bill could be presented to Congress as early as next week and would grant new legal rights to gay couples living together for more than a year.

From the Advocate:

Despite the heated debate the issue has caused in the predominantly Catholic country, last month Chilean president Sebastian Pinera was quoted by the newspaper El Mercurio as saying he wanted to safeguard “the dignity of those couples, whether of the opposite or even the same sex.”

If the legislation passes, Chile will be the fifth South American country to legalize same-sex civil unions, joining Brazil, Colombia, Ecuador, and Uruguay. Argentina offers marriage rights to gay couples.

Go go gadget progress! Let’s get some momentum going for this. 

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Source: gaywrites

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Illinois civil unions to take effect Wednesday

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After months of waiting, LGBT couples in Illinois will finally have a chance to legally recognize their relationships. Civil unions in Illinois will take effect on Wednesday. 

Couples will be allowed to apply for civil unions Wednesday and will be required to wait one day before holding a ceremony. Tons of ceremonies are already scheduled for Thursday, including dozens in Chicago’s Millennium Park. Governor Pat Quinn, who signed the law in January, is expected to attend. 

The AP article linked above has more details, including some touching stories of same-sex couples whose lives will truly change forever on Wednesday. Churches won’t be required to hold any ceremonies, though some people are saying this may lead to laws mandating that religious adoption services include same-sex couples. 

Couldn’t be more thrilled about this. I’m legitimately considering canceling all my plans Thursday to go to Millennium Park and share in people’s joy. Chicago friends, anyone with me? 

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