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LGBTQ* Gender, Definition, and Irony
This Is Not Code For My Identity
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SUBMISSION RESPONSES: Dysphoria & Personal Identity
In response to the ask located here: http://projectqueer.tumblr.com/post/13181341385/is-there-such-a-thing-as-identifying-as-the-gender-you
- Anonymous asked: To the other anon - it’s entirely possibly and I’ve been through three therapists in order to try and find some kind of reason for my dysphoria. I identify as female and physically I am a female, but my entire life I have felt like that’s just not it. Recently it’s been suggested that I’m agendered, and my female identity comes largely from having grown up being *told* that female is what I am. Try and seek out a therapist or speak to your GP about a referral for one, you’re not alone! <3
- Anonymous asked: i think i have similar feelings as that anon. i’ve always identified as the gender i was born into but have always wondered about being of the opposite sex as well. to the extent that if i were in a sexual relationship i think i would be very interested in the use of a harness. but i’ve never known what to call it. i almost assumed it was a natural curiosity until i got shamed about it in conversation.
- v3ga5 asked: I sort of understand anon, i think. I was both male, and i love being a male… but i would love to have a female’s body :s i don’t know how to explain it
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Hello folks,
Thank you so much for sharing your personal stories and ideas for the anon who inquired about their personal identity. Let’s keep this discussion open.
If you would like to share YOUR personal story or advice relating to this issue, please do so, and I will add it here.
Sincerely,
Riley (PQ creator/editor)
ANONYMOUS QUESTION:
Since this question was a two-part ask, I decided to put the ask in full here - and make this particular question rebloggable for those interested.
Anonymous asked: Since Bisexuality Vs Pansexuality has come up tonight it seems, I’ve been struggling with something along those lines for a while. I thought I’d broach the subject here. I’ve always identified as bisexual. I like men and women. But lately I’ve been wondering if I should start using the term pansexual, since as I’ve heard it described as just being attracted to everybody, regardless of the gender binary.
Now I’ve got trans friends, and I see them as their preferred pronoun. Meaning as a man or as a woman. But then as I became more aware of the LGBT community as a whole, I became aware that there IS an in between. People who don’t really identify as either and I wondered, what about those people? Honestly, I’m attracted to who I’m attracted to, and body parts don’t really matter to me. And capable of loving anyone really.
So SHOULD I switch over? I just don’t really know.
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Hello there anon,
I have responded to similar questions before, and my answer remains mostly the same. Only YOU can decide who and what you truly are. It is solely up to you to define yourself. Therefore, only you can decide your true identity and who you are or are not attracted to.
I have no right to comment on who you are or are not attracted to or anything of the sort.
The best advice I can give is to not stress about your identity too much. Take your time to come into your own. Refer to yourself however YOU feel comfortable doing so.
Again, the decision is only up to you. Never let anyone else tell you who you are or should be - or anything of that sort.
Sincerely,
Riley (PQ creator/editor)
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Submitted by fefari.
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Hey folks!!
I have decided to update folks who follow my tumblr and keep you all informed about my trans* identity/status.
Basically, I will discuss all things involving being trans* - whether that is information regarding: sex, sexuality, social constructs about gender/gender roles, pronoun usage, dysphoria, body hair, androgyny, social interaction, cissexism, life in general, etc.
To view my first trans* update (on body hair), go here.
Cheers,
P.S. Feel free to send me update topic ideas or requests!!
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More people need to realize that biological sex and gender identity are completely different.
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GENDERQUEER IDENTITIES: Coming out as Genderqueer?
gqid:
Since today is National Coming Out Day, I thought I’d ask - does anyone have advice for coming out as genderqueer (approaches, resources to recommend for people who are new to the concept, cautionary advice, etc.)?
I would like to add that no one should ever feel pressured or think that they must
Source: gqid
I keep seeing this, and felt I should fill it out. It’s bit confusing, because I’m definitely still figuring things out, but it’s what is in my mind currently.
Source: kat481
I keep seeing this, and felt I should fill it out. It’s bit confusing, because I’m definitely still figuring things out, but it’s what is in my mind currently.
Source: kat481
Cass Model (above)
- created by Dr. Vivienne Cass, Australian sexologist and clinical psychologist, in 1979
- Gay and Lesbian Development
—- Can be broken into six stages
1. Identity Confusion
“Could I be gay” — a time of self-exploration
2. Identity Comparison
— accepting the possibility and dealing with possible social alienation
3. Identity Tolerance
“I am not the only one” — person seeks out others
4. Identity Acceptance
— has positive feelings about being gay rather than just self-toleration
5. Identity Pride
— often the time when the actual Coming Out happens; person divides the world into heterosexual and homosexual
6. Identity Synthesis
— being gay synthesizes itself into the person’s entire personality, so that being gay is only one part of the self
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