I submit that love is essentially a much simpler phenomenon - it becomes complicated, corrupted, or obstructed by an unequal balance of power… Because sexual inequality has remained a constant - however its degree may have varied - the corruption ‘romantic’ love became characteristic of love between the sexes…
A man must idealize one woman over the rest in order to justify his descent to a lower [class]… This idealization process acts to equalize artificially the two parties, a minimum precondition for the development of an uncorrupted love… Thus ‘falling in love’ is no more than the process of alteration of male vision - through idealization, mystification, glorification - that renders void the woman’s class inferiority.
'Finding Bluefield' Tells a Lesbian Love Story Set Against the Back Drop of the '60s
Novelist Elan Barnehama’s latest book Finding Bluefield tells the story of lesbian love set amidst the politics of the 1960s and we have an excerpt.
Here’s a synopsis:
In the summer of 1960, when Barbara Phillips arrives in Bluefield, Virginia, to begin her medical residency, she thinks she is headed for an uneventful few years filled with work in an obscure little town where no one knows her—which is exactly what she wants.
Everything changes when she enters Nicky’s diner and begins a journey that will last a lifetime as she falls in love against her better judgment and best-laid plans. The free-spirited Nicky later attends the 1963 March on Washington and impulsively and anonymously sleeps with a man in hopes of getting pregnant and starting a family with Barbara. When Nicky gives birth to Paul, her sister steps in to adopt Paul for his own “protection.”
Nicky, Barbara, and Paul escape Bluefield and make a life in upstate New York, only returning to Bluefield years later upon hearing of the death of Nicky’s sister. As their journey comes full circle, Barbara, Paul, and Nicky find their return to Bluefield is the catalyst for facing family secrets and forging family ties.
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We got our hair cut. And then I added colours.
Also, this photo pretty much sums up our relationship.
My girlfriend, Tashia (left): Http://walkwithcompassion.tumblr.com/ Me, Riley (right): Http://wanderlustprince.tumblr.com/Love love love love.
LiT just hit 700 followers! Welcome! Here is a little bit about us and what this blog is about:
Lovers in Transition was created by us - a friendly queer couple in our twenties. One of us is a cisgender woman named Tashia and the other is a trans* guy named Riley. We blog about life, love, and whatever we find that could be useful or interesting to human rights activists of all kinds.
We specifically created this safe space for folks in need of guidance/advice regarding:★ relationships/dating
★ coming out
★ dealing w/dysphoria
★ transitioning
★ safe sex/sex education
★ and much more
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QPOC (Queer People of Color) Relationship Advice Blog
A relationship advice blog run by QPOC, for QPOC, and about QPOC.
There is a serious and complete lack of space for queer people of color in relationships with other queer people of color that need to get some good advice from queer people of color about how to deal with relationship drama/worries/mishaps/confusion/etc, especially with how it can be so complicated with the identities that can intersect in that.Feel free to ask questions about how you’re unsure/upset/worried/anxious/etc about something going on with a relationship/hookup/love interest/polyamorous partner(s)/communication problem(s)/etc. Rants are welcome too!
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Lesbian Couple Sues to Stop Deportation
A lesbian couple from California filed a class-action federal lawsuit on Thursday to stop the deportation of same-sex spouses, according to the Associated Press.
The suit, filed on behalf of Philippines citizen Jane DeLeon, adds to the list of recent cases in support of immigrants in…
Source: dykesanddykery
Show Of Support of the Day: When 24-year-old Odd Future member Frank Ocean admitted on Tumblr last week to falling in love with a man, it was quite the shock to the hip-hop world, notorious for its tendency to disparage gays.
Nonetheless, Ocean’s bandmate Tyler, the Creator tweeted a classy congrats, and Def Jam’s Russell Simmons said Ocean “changed the game” for hip hop in a positive way.
Now, industry royalty Beyoncé and Jay-Z have joined the ranks of Ocean’s supporters.
Beyoncé, whose track “I Miss You” was written by Ocean, posted a pic of Ocean to her site over the weekend. The overlay reads:
Be fearless / Be honest / Be generous / Be brave / Be poetic / Be open / Be free / Be yourself / Be in love / Be happy / Be inspiration.
Beyoncé’s show of support was one-upped only by hubby Jay-Z — his powerful missive to Ocean on his site is more than worth a full read, but here’s the money excerpt:
We admire the great courage and beauty and fearlessness in your coming out, not only as a bisexual Black man, but as a broken hearted one. The tender irony that your letter is to a boy who was unable to return your love until years later because he was living a lie is the only truly tragic detail about your letter.
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Source: thedailywhat
LiT just hit 700 followers! Welcome! Here is a little bit about us and what this blog is about:
Lovers in Transition was created by us - a friendly queer couple in our twenties. One of us is a cisgender woman named Tashia and the other is a trans* guy named Riley. We blog about life, love, and whatever we find that could be useful or interesting to human rights activists of all kinds.
We specifically created this safe space for folks in need of guidance/advice regarding:★ relationships/dating
★ coming out
★ dealing w/dysphoria
★ transitioning
★ safe sex/sex education
★ and much more
Motherlode: The Gift of Being Gay and a Dad
When I came out, I believed I was giving up the one thing I had always wanted since I was a kid: being a dad.
(via comingoutjournal)
SUBMISSION STORY: Living With A Trans* Man - From The Trans* Man's Perspective
submitted by itsamonsa
In this submission, the submitter is a trans* fellow who discusses their relationship with their cisgender girlfriend who identifies as a lesbian. They offer advice and have resources to share!
(via thecuntmentality)
Source: loversintransition





