Anytime we equate fewer sex partners or monogamy or any “vanilla” sexual practice with being more respectable, we reinforce the idea that the people whose sexual desires are outside those boundaries have to trade their sexual authenticity in order to be accepted. I would much rather choose who to respect based on how they treat themselves and other people, which certainly doesn’t have to correlate with the kinds of sex or how many partners they have.
For those of you who own a RodeoH harness or have checked out RodeoH.com, what do you think?
What more do you want to see? Is there anything you would change about the harnesses? How about the site?
Let me know here or message me at rileykonor@yahoo.com
Update: Any suggestions, comments, or questions are welcome and encouraged. I will respond to all of them as I receive them. :)
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Transgender Canadians may be offered sexless passports
NB: Some of the terminology in the article is fucked.
Source: fuckyeahgenderstudies
Lovers in Transition was created by us - a friendly queer couple in our twenties. One of us is a cisgender woman named Tashia and the other is a trans* guy named Riley. We blog about life, love, and whatever we find that could be useful or interesting to human rights activists of all kinds.
We specifically created this safe space for folks in need of guidance/advice regarding:★ relationships/dating
★ coming out
★ dealing w/dysphoria
★ transitioning
★ safe sex/sex education
★ and much more
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How To Have Sex With an Asexual Person
This isn’t my article, I didn’t write and I don’t know the person that did, I simply find it an incredibly informative read, and I highly suggest anyone in a romantic relationship (or otherwise) with an asexual person read it.
Trigger warning for mentions of non consensual situaltions.
Source: slinkyofpansexuality
We are now accepting messages!
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This is a new blog project of mine and my girlfriend’s!
And we are now accepting messages!
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Most people find it difficult to grasp that whatever they like to do sexually will be thoroughly repulsive to someone else, and that whatever repels them sexually will be the most treasured delight of someone, somewhere. One need not like or perform a particular sex act in order to recognize that someone else will, and that this difference does not indicate a lack of good taste, mental health, or intelligence in either party. Most people mistake their sexual preferences for a universal system that will or should work for everyone.
Queer Sex Education
If you ever had any questions about sex, this would be a good place to go to ask them!
Source: artoftransliness
fuck yeah sex education: cassket: Common Myths about Sexuality and Disability There are many...
Common Myths about Sexuality and Disability
There are many common myths about sexuality and disability. Most start with the biggest myth of all, which is that people with disabilities are all the same, and that you can talk about them as one single group. This is completely…
Source: sex-ability.blogspot.com
How Should Asexuality Be Introduced to Sex Education Classes?
This is something that I think needs far more attention than it has received. Asexuality is currently left out of sex education classes or only briefly introduced. If we leave this up to the sex educators, we may find that the definitions are very odd.
(via fuckyeahsexeducation)
Source: ace-reporter
Ian McKellen: Shakespeare Enjoyed Sex With Men
“Shakespeare obviously enjoyed sex with men as well as women,” says esteemed actor Sir Ian McKellen.
New York Post columnist Cindy Adams reports the 72-year-old actor, who has portrayed a number of leading Shakespearean characters including Macbeth and King Lear, as saying, “No doubt Shakespeare was gay. His predilection was evident from his works. An unmistakenly feminine portrait of his patron Henry Wriothesley adds evidence that early sonnets to ‘fair youth’ were probably meant for males.”
McKellen continues, adding, “Married, with children, he left his wife in Stratford to live in London. I’d say he slept with men. The Merchant of Venice, centering on how the world treats gays as well as Jews, has a love triangle between an older man, younger man and a woman. And complexity in his comedies with cross-dressing and disguises is immense. Shakespeare obviously enjoyed sex with men as well as women.”
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- Best sexual experience - describe.
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Or, as always…
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