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What I Learned From Gay Sex: Misogyny And Homophobia

TW: heterosexism, misogyny, gay slur

by Simon Moritz

Peter is a gay man I slept with once. When he did come home with me and we were naked in my bed, he kissed my neck, and I moaned, high-pitched and breathy. He stopped, looked me in the eye and said, “Don’t do that. It’s faggy.”

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    • #gay slur
    • #queer community
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    • #sex
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    • #internal misogyny
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Teaching Kids Consent, Ages 1-21

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This is so amazing and so necessary.

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TransQueers XXX: Good News Everyone!

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Miranda Bellwether’s amazing zine Fucking Trans Women is once again available online. You can find it at PayHip.

We highly recommend this zine and hope you love it too. For those who don’t know its a radical analysis of trans*women’s’ sexuality with lots of hands-on tips. Frankly its one of…

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    • #zines
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HAPPY NATIONAL MASTURBATION MONTH GUYS!!
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HAPPY NATIONAL MASTURBATION MONTH GUYS!!

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It is the only time when happiness will reach you, because you are yourself and that’s all you should always be. 
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It is the only time when happiness will reach you, because you are yourself and that’s all you should always be. 

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Be You: Masturbation, Relationships, and Sex: A Guide for Trans* and Gender Variant People

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Sex, relationships, and masturbation can be tricky when you’re Trans*. You have to deal with social stigma as well as your own dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is the feeling that your body isn’t quite right. For trans* people this usually involves the genitals and chest,…

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Where To Get Trained As A Sex Educator by Charlie Glickman, Ph D.

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The Bible and Homosexuality: Part One - Christianity Columnist Steve Chalke calls for a new Christian understanding of homosexual relationships

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a great guide on consent and sexual relationships.

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Where To Get Trained As A Sex Educator by Charlie Glickman, Ph D.

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ACTUP.ORG: Cuba - Young explores sexual liberties

Cuba - Young explores sexual liberties

He had seen his bike through Luyano neighborhood in Havana, and although he did not know his name, Celia Rodriguez did not hesitate to follow the boy’s insistent gaze and, while dancing at the club, sharing kisses, rubs and caresses.

“The Download”, a term called among some youth groups to casual island where, usually no previous link with the other person, it is for the 17 years part of the fun when it comes out to clubs and parties.

“These are relationships without commitment, to enjoy, but not always get to have sex. That’s only if you really like, “says the high school student.

Open Relationships, casual sex and group erotic contact between strangers, swinging, among other ways to experience a sexuality devoid of traditional prejudices, are not unrelated to the Cuban youth. While not appropriate to mention widespread in all groups of adolescents and youth in the country, experts say that today it is possible to live a somewhat more open sexuality to canonical behaviors to experience pleasure, either gender or between people of the same sex.

“The youth of today is not the same as 20 years ago and has to be studied patterns of their own time, without censure, because the research and experimentation are hallmarks of this age” refers to the psychologist Yasmany SEMlac Diaz.

An investigative report published in 2011 by the magazine Bohemia, national circulation, found that both the download and open couples are common behaviors among adolescents and young people on the island, regardless of gender. The survey was based on group interviews with nine young people between 15 and 23 years living in the provinces of Holguin, Ciego de Avila and Havana.

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ACTUP.ORG: Hollywood – Daniel Radcliffe on Allen Ginsberg role: ‘Gay sex scenes aren’t shocking’

Daniel Radcliffe as Allen Ginsberg
Daniel Radcliffe, who plays gay beat poet Allen Ginsberg in his latest film, has said the reaction to the film’s sex scenes has “weirded [him] out”. Daniel Radcliffe’s new film has generated a lot of attention – but perhaps the focus on the film’s gay sex scenes wasn’t quite what the Harry Potter star was expecting. Radcliffe plays Allen Ginsberg in Kill Your Darlings, a film about the beat poet and his contemporaries, William Burroughs and Jack Kerouac, and a murder that took place in 1944. The film focuses on Ginsberg’s lifestyle, including experiments with drugs and alcohol and sexual relationships with men.

The film premiered on Friday night at Sundance Film Festival. Afterwards, Radcliffe told MTV: “it’s interesting that the [‘gay scenes’] are deemed shocking. For me, there’s something very strange about that because we see straight sex scenes all the time. We’ve seen gay sex scenes before. I don’t know what a gay sex scene should be any more shocking than a straight sex scene.”

Radcliffe, who is straight, has spoken out for gay rights in the past and has worked closely with Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans and Questioning support organisation the Trevor Project. As he reminded inquisitive crowds on the red carpet at the Eccles Theatre on Friday, this isn’t his first provocative project. Radcliffe starred in Equus in 2008, playing a man who has a sexual attraction to horses. The role saw him perform naked on stage. He said, “What weirded me out the most last night was people were asking me all these questions about gay sex scenes. I was like, “You know I did Equus? Some people are asking me questions like this is a more shocking subject, which is so strange.”

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Foucault on heterosexuality as the norm

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“…it was spoken of less and less, or in any case with a growing moderation…nothing further was demanded of it than to define itself from day to day. The legitimate couple, with its regular sexuality, had a right to more discretion. It tended to function as a norm, one that was stricter, perhaps,…

Foucault also introduces further concepts on the timeline of sexuality in the Western world in History of Sexuality (1976), including the role of confession (thank you Catholic Church!) and the move to pathologization of non-normative sexualities via the growth of scientific discourse (moving away from an “arc erotica” pleasure-based system of sexuality).

The respective expansion of medicine, hygiene+industrialization, and psychoanalysis all contributed to the heteronormativitization of society you describe.

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How To Be An Ally to Sex Workers

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Changing attitudes towards men who have sex with men and transgender people in Myanmar

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