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Supporting More Trans Stories: Reflecting on Our Healthcare System and the Media

by Tobias Rodriguez and Lauren Herold 

Earlier this week, an Indiegogo campaign went viral: Emerson College’s Phi Alpha Tau fraternity raised money for their frat brother, Donnie Collins, a trans man who needs top surgery. Donnie initially tried to pay for the surgery through Emerson’s insurance, Aetna, since Aetna offers coverage for trans*-related surgeries and hormone replacement therapy; Donnie’s request was denied, however, because Emerson College did not opt in to those services. After Out.com featured an article about Phi Alpha Tau’s Indiegogo campaign, the brothers raised more than twice the $8,000 Donnie needs for the surgery. Donnie’s frat brothers spoke in their Indiegogo video about wanting this fundraiser to start a conversation. There are (at least) two important conversations we’d like to address.

First, not every insurance company covers trans-related services. Colleges are typically hesitant to add these services for financial reasons. When colleges opt in to services for insurance plans they offer to students, they want to ensure they are getting their money’s worth. If a college doesn’t have any trans students, they can claim that these additional services will be paid for by all but enjoyed by few. Their most obvious incentive to add the services is to attract a more diverse student population, but the chances of the college attracting even dozens of trans students who need these services is slim.

It’s good that insurance companies like Aetna are beginning to cover these services, and many colleges are beginning to follow suit by opting into these services. But “many” is not enough. People like Donnie oftentimes don’t have time to wait for their insurance plan to decide to cover necessary services. Raising funds for an individual’s surgery may be successful in the short term, but we shouldn’t have to settle for hoping that the kindness of strangers will make up for the shortcomings of insurance companies and their clients. We need to push for institutional change so that all policies include these services. There are trans people around the country with similar medical needs who spend years saving or raising funds for these procedures and sometimes do not succeed. What about them?

We also need to talk about media coverage around the Indiegogo campaign. Most reporters have focused on a hook: that fraternity members defied the frat bro archetype by launching a campaign in support of a trans member. Donnie’s frat brothers deserve a lot of credit for demonstrating what it means to be a trans ally. But when media coverage focuses on the actions of cisgender individuals, it moves focus away from the fact that lack of proper medical care for trans people is a systemic issue and shifts our gaze to the stories of cis allies. The frat brothers are the conversation piece: they both created the conversation and are the subject of it, while Donnie’s experiences are discussed only briefly. Who gets to talk about trans people’s bodies and experiences? Cis people create the storyline and drive the narrative, and articles about the Indiegogo campaign reaffirm this trope.

This pattern perpetuates the assumption that cis people can talk about trans people’s bodies and experiences without their consent and without repercussions. In this case, Donnie welcomed the Indiegogo campaign as another platform he can use to share his experiences with the world, and has already made a variety of YouTube videos documenting his transition. However, for many trans people, their transition is a private journey. Stories like these make invisible the trans people who don’t medically transition as well as those who don’t want their transition to be public knowledge.

These stories also reify a singular trans narrative: that every trans person comes out, is supported, and begins a medical transition that includes hormone replacement therapy and at least one surgery. This is the story most people are comfortable hearing, but it does not reflect all trans people’s experiences and it alienates trans people whose experiences differ. It leaves out trans people who do not medically transition (whether because of personal preference or lack of access), who do not have a support system, and/or who are not vocal about their trans status.

We applaud the efforts of Donnie’s brothers — their campaign has helped change his life, and will continue to benefit trans people: they have pledged to donate the extra money they raised to the Jim Collins Foundation. Yet these efforts are not enough. We have to work toward systemic change in our healthcare system so trans people are not constantly fighting individual battles. And when we tell trans stories, we need to do so with a media that captures the full complexity of trans experiences.

*We use the asterisk here to suggest that the term “trans” can refer to a lot of identities under the trans umbrella. Here’s a great explanation of why. Our choice to use the asterisk in our first use of trans* and not thereafter was for readability.

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Yet Another Major Study Finds Strong LGBT Support Among Latinos

by Monica Trasandes, GLAAD’s Director of Spanish-Language Media

A study released by the Pew Hispanic Center April 4 found that 59 percent of U.S. Latinos say homosexuality should be accepted by society. Second generation Hispanics go further, with 68 percent of those surveyed saying the same.

A 2010 Bendixen & Amandi International poll found 83 percent of Latinos support housing and employment non-discrimination protections and 74 percent support marriage equality or other forms of legal recognition for gay and lesbian couples.

Click the link above to read the full article.

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Demand an Investigation of LGBTQ Student's Harassment by School Principal in TN

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Why This is Important?

This is a joint petition by the Tennessee Equality Project and Gay-Straight Alliance Network’s Make It Better Project.

When several students at Sequoyah High School in Madisonville, Tennessee tried to start a Gay-Straight Alliance club after years of bullying, their principal said no. When the students circulated a petition and gathered 150 student signatures supporting the club, the principal banned petitions. When this brought local media scrutiny and the attention of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), the administration blocked the club based on its failure to secure an advisor. Although the students found teachers who seemed supportive and willing to serve as advisers, all eventually withdrew without explanation.

Now, according to the ACLU, Principal Moser has allegedly assaulted one student, Chris Sigler, for wearing a handmade shirt that read “GSA: We’ve got your back” – grabbing his arm and chest-bumping him while asking “Who’s the big man now?”

Despite the complaint filed by Chris and his mother, the Sheriff’s Department has failed to interview his sister, who witnessed the alleged assault, or his mother, who witnessed additional behavior from the principal…

Under the Federal Equal Access Act, students have the right to form a Gay-Straight Alliance club in public schools that allow other extra-curricular clubs. GSA clubs can be a lifeline for students dealing with bullying and harassment. The tragic deaths of many young people by suicide in the past year have illustrated the importance of safe spaces, resources, and anti-bullying campaigns for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender youth. It is unconscionable for the district to erect barriers between its students and a safe learning environment, but Sequoyah’s refusal to allow a GSA – and the administration’s harassment of supportive students and teachers – amounts to just that.

SIGN THE PETITION (via) Change.org

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LGBTQ* “A” Websites You Should Know
AVEN - Asexual Visibility and Education Network
www.Asexuality.org
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LGBTQ* “A” Websites You Should Know

AVEN - Asexual Visibility and Education Network

www.Asexuality.org

(picture above from forum)

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For sale.
$5 each, that includes shipping. (If outside of the US, extra shipping costs can be discussed). 
All profits go towards my transition (for hormones, top surgery, etc).
Payment is accepted via paypal (dylanreidd@yahoo.com)
After you place your order, please put your full name and address into my ask box for shipping; I will not rely on the information Paypal gives me.
Please reblog to get this out. It’s for a good cause!
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For sale.

$5 each, that includes shipping. (If outside of the US, extra shipping costs can be discussed).

All profits go towards my transition (for hormones, top surgery, etc).

Payment is accepted via paypal (dylanreidd@yahoo.com)

After you place your order, please put your full name and address into my ask box for shipping; I will not rely on the information Paypal gives me.

Please reblog to get this out. It’s for a good cause!

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Homo oh no!: Help Hotlines

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mygift-is-mysong:

Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696

Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-8433

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: 1-847-831-3438

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673

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RE-BLOG THIS IF YOU SUPPORT LGBTQ RIGHTS!

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Hi everyone. This is me. I’m Travvy and I’m 18 and live in London, England.
I never thought I would have to resort to this, but [cut out long depressing rant] I am in a really, really hard place right now, and I need to start hormones as soon as possible, for my own sanity. D;
I didn’t want to stoop to begging, but I feel like I have no real choice left; I am sending out a plea to the followers of FYFTMS - I need hormones, and if anybody can help me get there, I will be so, SO grateful.
I started an event on a site called chipin - http://travvy.chipin.com/private-therapy-testosterone - I’m hoping to make anything I can, as I want to be able to book my first appointment as soon as possible. Please have a read – pass it on to friends – anything you can do.
Thank you so much.
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Hi everyone. This is me. I’m Travvy and I’m 18 and live in London, England.

I never thought I would have to resort to this, but [cut out long depressing rant] I am in a really, really hard place right now, and I need to start hormones as soon as possible, for my own sanity. D;

I didn’t want to stoop to begging, but I feel like I have no real choice left; I am sending out a plea to the followers of FYFTMS - I need hormones, and if anybody can help me get there, I will be so, SO grateful.

I started an event on a site called chipin - http://travvy.chipin.com/private-therapy-testosterone - I’m hoping to make anything I can, as I want to be able to book my first appointment as soon as possible. Please have a read – pass it on to friends – anything you can do.

Thank you so much.

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From the Rhode Island paper of record The Providence Journal, showing the shift in Rhode Island to a majority supporting marriage equality.
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From the Rhode Island paper of record The Providence Journal, showing the shift in Rhode Island to a majority supporting marriage equality.

via newsblog.projo.com

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